RoseMarie Dembowski of Simsbury and Marion dies at age 91

RoseMarie Dembowski, who spent her final years brightening life at a Marion healthcare facility where she earned the affectionate title of “The Mayor,” passed away on Sunday, October 25, 2026, at the age of 91.

Living Across Connecticut and Massachusetts

Born in Bridgeport, Connecticut, to Helen and Antonio D’Agostino, Rose built a rich life across several New England communities. She lived for many years in Simsbury and Fairfield, Connecticut, before eventually settling in Marion, Massachusetts, where she spent her final chapter at Sippican Healthcare Center. Over a lifetime marked by deep faith in God and a steady, positive attitude, she managed her health battles with congestive heart failure and COPD with remarkable resilience.

Her warmth left a distinct mark on the facilities that cared for her. Throughout her time in care, she was known simply as “The Mayor”—a nod to her habit of reaching out to newcomers, offering a friendly word to those who felt isolated, and encouraging hesitant residents to join in group activities and try new things. She held a deep appreciation for her Italian heritage, her close friendships gathered over decades, and her particularly cherished Cinco de Mayo birthday.

RoseMarie Dembowski of Simsbury and Marion dies at age 91 — Photo: memorials.vincentfuneralhome.com

Remembering Surviving Family Members

Rose was predeceased by her husband of 50 years, Joseph Dembowski, as well as her sister and brother-in-law, Theresa and Roger Baron. She leaves behind a devoted family, including her daughter and son-in-law, Bernadette and John Slattery of East Falmouth, Massachusetts. She was also an adoring grandmother to Sean and Megan Slattery of Hanover, Massachusetts, and Kevin and Monica Slattery of Portland, Oregon. Her three great-grandchildren—Nolan, Owen, and Hailey Slattery of Hanover—brought immense joy and light to her daily life.

Family and friends will gather for services in November. Calling hours are scheduled for Tuesday, November 10, from 8:45 to 9:15 AM at Vincent Funeral Home, located at 880 Hopmeadow Street in Simsbury, Connecticut. Following the calling hours, a Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10:00 AM at St. Catherine of Siena, situated at 267 Stratton Brook Road in West Simsbury. A private burial will take place immediately afterward in Fairfield, Connecticut.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be directed to St. Catherine of Siena, 267 Stratton Brook Road, West Simsbury, CT 06092. Those wishing to share online condolences or view further details can visit Rose’s Book of Memories via the Vincent Funeral Home website.